• Snow White

Try out a monochromatic style, especially in a fresh winter white. You can combine creams and ivories, or stick to pure white. Guests are greeted with sparkling white linens, white plates, and silver flatware. Ring the windows in white twinkling lights, or go for votives or candlesticks in the windowsills. Send your guests home with a matching gift as a loving memento. 

And while you’re laying a snowy scene, you can choose some accent pieces in bright reds or gold to sprinkle throughout the room. You could also think about using some red-colored lights or candles, for a more dramatic effect. This will increase the visual interest, and allow you to increase the ambiance.

You could even ask your guests to sport white ensembles to create a mood. This is also a great opportunity for some impressive group photos.

• Winter Elegance

Go for a traditional look. Imagine gold table runners, napkin holders, and fine china and crystal. A lot of us have these things in our cabinets and they rarely see the light of day. Let yourself indulge in a luxurious and elegant holiday party. The menu should be traditional, as in a big roast or turkey; but not so traditional that you do not include an option for any vegetarian friends. You can begin the evening with hors d'oeuvres around the room and move on to a hot and cold buffet. Investing in a few chafing dishes is worth the effort if you don't already have some around. Having sparkling wine and making holiday toasts is a great way to celebrate once everyone has settled down to eat. 

Take every opportunity to include some glamorous details. Think about using small packets filled with trinkets and well wishes as placeholders. Decorate with family photos in matching frames as an elegant way to spark conversations and create new memories.